Perhaps what I found most impactful is what you said about my mission and that it is meant to be shared. That is informative and language that I am grateful to have now. I may find a lifelong partner but I don’t see that changing that it would be awful for me and unacceptable to not continue to be able to share what I have to offer with others just to indulge one person’s insecurity and wish for control. It would be human and understandable for a woman to want that, but ultimately fear-based, selfish. Until now, I have seen this aspect of my wanting to share to be my selfishness. Now I no longer see it that way.